Only In Hindsight

Only In Hindsight

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My High-Paying Job Made Me a Lazy Creative
I know what you’re thinking BUT hear me out.
1 hr ago • Leslie

June 2026

The Room I Rented Before I Was Ready
I signed the lease on a space I cannot fully justify.
Jun 5 • Leslie

December 2025

We Are All Trying Our Best
On kindness, free will, and remembering that everyone is learning in real time
Dec 30, 2025 • Leslie

September 2025

Self-Control Is How You Self-Preserve
I used to think health was about discipline only in the obvious ways—eating better, working out, drinking more water.
Sep 8, 2025 • Leslie
Detachment Teaches You How to Stay
There are so many times I look back and think: if only I had detached, things would have been different.
Sep 6, 2025 • Leslie
You Can’t Distract Yourself Out of Loneliness
Solange said it best: I tried to drink it away, I tried to sex it away, I ran my credit card bill up… and still, the ache persisted.
Sep 6, 2025 • Leslie

June 2025

The Eldest Daughter's Quiet Undoing
A letter to the first version of me, my mother.
Jun 3, 2025 • Leslie

May 2025

The Intimacy We Don't Talk About Enough
To the women I love, who weather the April storms - you are my May flowers.
May 2, 2025 • Leslie

April 2025

To the First Man Who Never Said ‘I Love You’
But somehow taught me everything about it anyway.
Apr 10, 2025 • Leslie
Letters I should have sent
A reminder that you don't need to keep learning the hard way.
Apr 6, 2025 • Leslie
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